{"product_id":"ditch-that-jerk-dealing-with-men-who-control-and-abuse-women-paperback","title":"Ditch That Jerk: Dealing with Men Who Control and Abuse Women - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003ePamela Jayne\u003c\/b\u003e (Author), \u003cb\u003eAndrew R. Klein\u003c\/b\u003e (Foreword by)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe Potentially Good, The Definitely Bad, and the Utterly Hopeless...\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIf you know your husband or boyfriend is a good man, then this book isn't for you.\u003c\/strong\u003e But if you're not so sure, \u003cem\u003e Ditch That Jerk\u003c\/em\u003e will help you assess whether your partner could be controlling or abusive--and whether he'll ever change. Author Pamela Jayne writes in a direct, honest style, and uses real-life examples to show how the mind of an abusive man works and how to recognize the men she characterizes as potentially good, definitely bad or utterly hopeless. Her book includes descriptions, examples, warnings--and even \"jerk tests.\" Should you ditch him? Here are a few of the indicators: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThe Potentially Good Man\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003cem\u003e(has the capacity to change)\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eis likely to use non-physical forms of control and intimidation, such as verbal abuse\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eis usually employed and doesn't change jobs a lot or get fired regularly\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003edoes not usually have a serious alcohol or other drug problem\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThe Definitely Bad Man\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003cem\u003e(is unlikely to change)\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003efeels victimized by the world and blames everyone else for his problems\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eis moody, creates chaos around him, and may isolate himself and his family\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003emay have a serious problem with alcohol or other drugs\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eThe Utterly Hopeless Man\u003c\/strong\u003e \u003cem\u003e(will never change--ditch him!)\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ebehaves violently, including toward animals, and totally lacks feelings and empathy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eis extremely dishonest, lying whenever it suits his purposes\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eis charming and highly manipulative--often claiming to have reformed\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIf you're with a man who is controlling or hurtful--or you want to help a woman who is--\u003cem\u003eDitch That Jerk\u003c\/em\u003e is for you.\u003c\/strong\u003e Sensible and straightforward, this book can help women make potentially lifesaving decisions about their relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 256\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.57 x 8.45 x 5.48 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e May 15, 2000\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53147614838895,"sku":"9780897932837","price":25.31,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0717\/4966\/4879\/files\/RC9ENGlLWWN6bG1lZ21GZmc0NWM1UT09.webp?v=1779540832","url":"https:\/\/finderbooks.com\/products\/ditch-that-jerk-dealing-with-men-who-control-and-abuse-women-paperback","provider":"Finder Books ","version":"1.0","type":"link"}